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Mapping your life story is not just about reminiscing the past; it’s a crucial key to unlocking your present and future.

Your life story is a tapestry woven with experiences, decisions, relationships, and events that have shaped who you are today. It informs your relational style, your reactions, your values, and even your fears and dreams. Ignoring or overlooking your life story can lead to a lack of self-awareness, repeated patterns of behavior, and misunderstandings in relationships. It may leave you feeling disconnected from yourself and others, unable to fully grasp why you act or react in certain ways.

Embracing and exploring your life story, on the other hand, opens doors to profound self-discovery and growth. It allows you to see the connections between your past and present, understand the origins of your personality traits, and recognize the influences that have molded your relational style. This understanding empowers you to make intentional choices, foster healthier relationships, and live a more authentic and fulfilled life. It’s not about dwelling in the past but using the insights from your life story to illuminate your path forward, enabling you to relate better to God, yourself and others.

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HOW WE RELATE: UNDERSTANDING GOD, YOURSELF AND OTHERS THROUGH THE ENNEAGRAM by Jesse Eubanks Discover how God speaks into your unique personality and life story to make the gospel come alive for you. Enneagram coach and host of The EnneaCast podcast Jesse Eubanks invites readers to go deeper for true transformation. In How We Relate, Eubanks interprets the Enneagram through the gospel story to help readers grow in self-awareness, improve their relationships, and encounter Jesus. LIFE IS ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS. IT’S TIME TO TRANSFORM YOURS.

Like a workshop, interview and game show for your relational health. Welcome to The EnneaCast, a bi-weekly show that explores personality and the Enneagram through the lens of the gospel. Every episode combines teaching, an interview and a game into a fascinating and fun listening experience. Hosted by Jesse Eubanks and Lindsey Lewis, The EnneaCast features authors, artists, pastors and counselors sharing their wisdom with one goal in mind: to help you experience more meaningful relationships with God, yourself and others.

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