Sharing, Planning and
Here are some things that you
can both do to ensure that you each do your fair
share of household work in the relationship:
Discuss how to share
responsibilities in order to make life less
difficult for each other and function as an
Review what you each have on
at the start of the week and what this means for
who does what.
Use lists and post-it notes
to remind your partner what needs to be done.
Allow your partner to carry
out their share of the work in their own way.
If you see something that
needs to be done, do it yourself rather than
waiting for your partner to do it.
Invite feedback on whether
you are doing your fair share, and what
additional things you could be doing to support
Watch this video by Michele
Weiner-Davis about a subtle way of
influencing your partner.